Yeah I doubt I would be with them at my age if I did not look young, was in great shape, and was successful. I am not that old though really but to them it may seem so. Most of them say I look about 23-25, or about 10 years younger than I am.
Nonetheless I also have a great personality and they are usually very dense, so that kind of goes out the window as far as girls go. I am not shallow though and do not only look for looks because I know that a relationship cannot survive based on looks alone. That is why I date. I have been in many relationships over the years and personally I think they are a waste of time and age you. I like my independence and girls don't run my life. High school is over.
I have a lot of talents and several businesses that keep me busy, especially magic and horror costume design. So it is not like I am sitting around a house needing to be with someone. I also play several sports and have rode BMX flatland for 25 years, still do, and do a lot of retro restoration projects. Most of that stuff is of no interest to girls though. There is not enough time in the day for all that I do, and all the time I waste online is even worse.
But let's just say I had a lot of fun in past and I could comfortably move on and be single for along time if I wanted to. I have dated older girls as well but like I said they usually come with a lot of baggage too. The younger ones are more fun but don't last as long, especially when they leave for the summer or for graduation. They think my magic is cool and I never had to use it to get a girl, which I find absurd.
In fact most girls love my magic at first but then get sick of seeing later on, especially when I use them as test dummies for 100 tricks straight. They would rather be doing other things luckily.
But if it was up to them I would not get anything done and have no hobbies except watching soaps and TV with them. I would take all of my talents and fitness over a relationship any day, and have now for years. Also dating keeps everything fresh, most marriages end as soon as they start. I could have been married many times but I am wise.
That is when you age and all the stress just begins, and sets you up for divorce and major losses. I saw it happen many times with friends. I prefer to keep my independence and youth. You won't be able to do that with a screaming wife and a mini-van full of screaming kids.