I know a good way to get attention at the bar, borrow a lighter or produce one. then use the invisotorch when you are acting like you are gonna light a ciggarette, lol. immediately produce a hanky you had palmed and wipe your forehead like your shocked and go about your own business. just be very carefull not to take off your eyebrows. very good attention getter that is sure to make women notice you for shure. heck do it alongside the flower appearance (can't think of name of it) and give her a flower after it. just rolling from trick to trick is the way to break the ice nicely.